Entry for August 10, 2006

Dad is getting a feeding tube put in this morning. Mom and I will be there. Wish him luck

Later in the day:

Dad did not have the feeding tube put in. He had a slight fever, so the Dr., against the nurses' thoughts, decided to put a tube down his nose and tie down his right hand, the only one that works, so he didn't pull it out. She and I both agreed that one more day, as heavy as he is, would not hurt him as much as the nose tube would. He did talk a little more today, but he still does not realize where he is. But I do think he knew who my Mom and I were. He can't take any fluids through his mouth, and has not had even so much as a drink of water for two days. He is getting IV fluids, so he is not dehydrated, but his mouth and throat are very sore from no water or anything. I felt so bad, because he almost begged for a drink, but the nurse said no so there was nothing I could do.

On another note, the people in my life that are making it better, keeping me strong are my Mother and my best friend Kim. I thank God for both of them.

Entry for August 11, 2006

Dad's Dr. called today. He said his stroke was very serious and he is going to have to go into a nursing home. We are going up the the hospital in a little while, will write more then.

Went to the Hospital. Dad looks worse, it sounds like his lungs are wet. He has a tube in his nose feeding him, and he didn't open his eyes. Also has a temp. of 103.

Then we went to Dr. Coleman's office, after he gets a little better (I hope), they are going to try to put a feeding tube in his stomach on Monday, and after a few weeks, they might send him to John Knox Village for 24 hour care and rehab. He also talked to Mom about a DNR. She will sign it tomorrow. Hope we won't need it.

Entry for August 13, 2006

My Father died today around 5:00pm. I know he is in a better place. He was the best man I have ever known. He has done more for me than any son can expect from a father. I will miss him so much, his laugh, his advise, just knowing he would be there. I have done a lot to hurt him in my life, but he knows that he did the very best he could raising me. I am all grown up now, and Dad, I promise you I will take care of your Wife, my Mother. Rest well, I will always love you.

God Bless You

Your loving Son,

Tom